10 Wedding Day Regrets (and How to Avoid Them!)
Real Advice for Brides in Fulshear, TX
Photos in this Post by: Always Photogenic Photography
At Brandt 1910, we’ve hosted many weddings—and we’ve learned a thing or two from the brides who’ve been there, done that, and are now planning their second (and more meaningful) walk down the aisle. About half of our couples are tying the knot for the second time, and trust us, they’re doing things very differently this time.
They’ve seen what worked (and what didn’t) the first time around, and their choices can offer smart, heartfelt lessons to every bride—especially those planning their first wedding.
So if you’re newly engaged and planning your big day in or around Fulshear, Texas, we’ve pulled together the top 10 wedding day regrets brides often experience—and most importantly, how to avoid them.
1. Inviting Too Many People
Wedding Regret: Overwhelming guest lists often lead to higher costs, more stress, and fewer meaningful moments.
How to Avoid It: Be intentional. Focus on the people who truly matter to you and your partner. At Brandt 1910, we’ve seen the magic that happens when you keep your guest count between 90 and 150—the sweet spot for intimacy and celebration.
2. Skimping on Photography
Wedding Regret: Brides constantly say they wish they'd invested more in photos. After the cake is gone, the photos are what you’ll treasure most.
How to Avoid It: Hire a pro. Look for someone whose style matches your vibe and knows how to capture candid, emotional moments. Fulshear brides rave about Always Photogenic and Emerald Aisle Studios, two favorites who love shooting at Brandt 1910’s vintage-chic venue.
3. A Packed, Rushed Schedule
Wedding Regret: Not building in time to breathe, relax, or even eat can leave you feeling like you missed your own wedding.
How to Avoid It: Add buffer time between events and choose a venue that lets you stay put. At Brandt 1910, we offer full-day access, so you’re never rushed—and even let you set up the day before and pick up the day after. Win-win!
4. Wearing Painful Shoes
Wedding Regret: Ten inch heels aren’t worth the blisters when you’re day last four hours of more of standing.
How to Avoid It: Wear your shoes in before the big day, and bring a backup pair of comfy, stylish flats. Or even better, choose shoes that highlight your country roots, like a pair of blinged out cowboy boots, or some snazzy Vans that you and your partner can sport together.
5. DIY DJ Disasters
Wedding Regret: A Spotify playlist isn’t a substitute for a professional DJ who can read the crowd and keep things flowing.
How to Avoid It: Book a DJ who has wedding experience. We love working with The Deluxe DJs—they’re local to the Greater Houston area and bring both energy and polish. A pro DJ can make or break your vibe!
6. Wasting Money on Favors
Wedding Regret: Tiny favors often get left behind or forgotten.
How to Avoid It: Consider skipping them and putting your budget toward experiences—like a late-night snack bar, custom cocktails, or a photo booth. Guests remember how they felt, not the tiny bottle of bubbles they didn’t take home.
7. Skipping a Day-Of Coordinator
Wedding Regret: Trying to manage your own timeline or relying on friends can be a recipe for stress.
How to Avoid It: Hire a professional to manage logistics. At Brandt 1910, our staff is always available to assist, and we highly recommend working with a local day-of coordinator to keep your celebration stress-free.
8. No Weather Backup Plan
Wedding Regret: Outdoor weddings are gorgeous—until the weather turns.
How to Avoid It: Choose a venue that offers beautiful indoor and outdoor spaces. Brandt 1910’s lush garden and elegant ballroom give you options, no matter what Texas weather throws your way.
9. Not Having a Private Space to Get Ready
Wedding Regret: Getting dressed in a cramped or public space adds unnecessary stress.
How to Avoid It: Ask your venue what’s included. At Brandt 1910, we offer gorgeous private suites for both the bride and groom. The bridal suite is light-filled and serene, while the groom’s room features its own bathroom, a Smart TV, and a private patio—because he deserves a great space, too!
10. Sweating the Small Stuff
Wedding Regret: Mismatched napkins or late cake deliveries won't matter a year from now—but they might ruin your vibe if you let them.
How to Avoid It: Choose vendors you trust, lean on your team, and let go of the tiny things. Focus on the reason you’re celebrating: love. At Brandt 1910, we’re here to make sure everything feels calm, curated, and taken care of so you can stay present and joyful.
Avoid Wedding Regrets—Plan Smart in Fulshear
Your wedding should feel like you—not like a checklist from Pinterest or a pressure-filled production. By avoiding these common wedding mistakes and leaning into your wedding venue resources and staff, you can walk away from your big day with zero regrets.
Brandt 1910 isn’t just one of the best Fulshear wedding venues—we’re a team of people who truly care. From flexible booking policies to thoughtful amenities and vendor recommendations, we’re here to support you every step of the way.
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