Wedding Tipping Etiquette: Who, When, and How Much to Tip in 2025

By Natalie DeJong | 05/26/2025

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Wedding Tipping Etiquette for Fulshear Couples: Who, When & How Much in 2025

You’ve booked the venue (hopefully with Brandt 1910), picked your flowers, and found the perfect playlist. But one question keeps popping up (and as a wedding venue owner, one I get all the time):
"Are we supposed to tip our wedding vendors... and how much?"

Whether you're tying the knot at the historic Brandt 1910 or saying “I do” in your backyard, this guide will help you navigate tipping with grace and confidence.

Why Tipping Matters

Tipping isn’t just about dollars—it’s about gratitude.
Your wedding vendors work hard (often behind the scenes) to make your day magical. A thoughtful tip shows appreciation and builds goodwill in the close-knit Fulshear wedding community.

“It’s not required—but it’s meaningful.”

Southern Etiquette in Fulshear

Here in the South—especially around Fulshear and Wallis—hospitality is a way of life. We smile big, hug hard, and tip generously when service is heartfelt. It's just part of what makes weddings in this area so warm and special.

Pro Tip: When in doubt, round up. Southern charm goes a long way, and so does kindness.

Before You Tip…

Check contracts: Some vendors include gratuity.
Ask your coordinator: They know what’s customary.
Don’t feel pressured: Tip based on service, not obligation.

Pro Tip: At Brandt 1910, we never require couples to use specific vendors—but if you’re using our recommended list, we’ll gladly advise on what’s customary and handle the envelopes too!

Hair & Makeup Artists

Tip: 15–25% of the total
When: After services are complete
Why: They make you look AND feel your best

Pro Tip: Give your artist their tip directly—it makes their day!

Photographer & Videographer

Tip: $50–$200 each (assistants: $50–$75)
When: End of the night or after you receive your photos
Why: They capture memories you’ll treasure forever

Pro Tip: Ask if they take Venmo or Zelle—it’s fast, and they love it!

Officiant

Tip: $50–$150 (or donate to their church)
When: Before or after the ceremony
Why: They make your ceremony personal and heartfelt

DJ & Emcee

Tip: $50–$150
When: After their set (or ask your coordinator to deliver)
Why: They set the mood from the aisle to the dance floor

Pro Tip: At Brandt 1910, we work with the always-awesome Deluxe DJs—tip them well, they go above and beyond!

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🍽️ Caterer

Tip: 15–20% of the food bill or
$50–$100 per chef, $20–$50 per server
When: End of the night (or with final payment)
Why: They fuel the celebration with delicious food

Local Love: Pier 36 Seafood is our 2025 All-Inclusive caterer—guests rave about their surf & turf!

Bar Staff & Servers

Tip: $20–$50 per bartender/server or 15–20% of bar total
When: At the end of service
Why: They keep drinks flowing and service seamless

Pro Tip: Ask your Brandt 1910 coordinator to tip on your behalf—one less thing to remember!

Wedding Planner or Day-of Coordinator

Tip: $50–$500 (or up to 10% of their fee)
When: End of night or post-honeymoon
Why: They’re the unsung heroes behind the scenes

Pro Tip: Include a handwritten thank-you note—it means the world!

Security Officers

Tip: $20–$50 per officer
When: At the end of the event
Why: They keep your guests safe and your gifts secure

Local Love: We partner with Wallis PD—they’re true professionals and kind souls. Offering them dinner? Even better!

Limo & Car Services

Tip: 15–20% of the bill (often included)
When: After the final ride
Why: They get you there in style—no stress

Pro Tip: Grooms—this one’s on you. A smooth exit makes a big impression.

Venue Staff (The Brandt 1910 Way)

Here at Brandt 1910, we believe your rental fee says it all.
No tip expected—but if our team made your night amazing, we love heartfelt reviews, kind words, or referrals

Celebrate with Confidence

Now that you know who to tip and when, you can focus on enjoying your day—stress-free and full of joy.

Planning a wedding in Fulshear? Tour our historic venue just minutes away in Wallis and experience the charm, care, and community that sets Brandt 1910 apart.

Schedule a tour today or ask us about our trusted vendor team—we’ll even prep your tip envelopes for you.